Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Tips bersuami isteri

  1. Hendaklah isteri ingat bahawa dirinya (perempuan) itu dijadikan oleh Tuhan Yang Maha Bijaksana untuk lelaki. Lelaki dijadikan menguasai perempuan dan menjadi pemimpin baginya. Oleh itu tidak patut bagi seorang perempuan berfikiran atau bercita-cita hendak menguasai dan menundukkan suami dalam segala hal.
  2. Hendaklah ia bekerja dan berusaha dengan seberapa daya untuk menambat dan menggembirakan hati suami supaya suami cinta dan sayang kepadanya dengan berkekalan. Setengah ikhtiar itu ialah: Manis muka, Halus perkataan, Bersolek setiap hari dan waktu dan Bersikap manja di hadapannya.
  3. Isteri hendaklah memerhatikan tabiat suami tiap-tiap hari tentang kesukaan dan kebenciannya. Apa-apa kesukaannya disempurnakan oleh isteri dan apaapa kebencian ditinggalkan.
  4. Jangan banyakkan permintaan atau memberati suami dalam perkara yang tidak dapat menyempurnakannya apatah lagi jika ia tidak mampu kerana perbuatan demikian merunsingkan suami.
  5. Jangan sekali-kali meninggalkan rumah tanpa izin suami atau melanggar perkara yang tiada gemar dan jangan pula suka membantah jika disuruh. Apabila disuruh eloklah dilaksanakan.
  6. Isteri hendaklah sentiasa ada di rumah ketika suami pulang dari kerja, melainkan kerana terpaksa atau ada hajat besar dan bila-bila suami batik hendaklah disambut dengan balk dan bersolek pula.
  7. Janganlah pergi mendapatkan bomoh, pawang, tukang sihir atau tukang tilik untuk memperlihatkan hal suami atau menambat hatinya. Ini semua berdosa serta membuang wang dan membazir.
  8. Jangan suka menceritakan kecantikkan perempuan lain atau memuji-muji anak isteri orang lain di hadapan suami apatah lagi memburuk-burukkan mereka kerana memuji perempuan lain itu mungkin membukakan pintu nafsu suaminya kepada perempuan lain. Manakala mengeji atau memburukkannya pula dikhuatiri kalau-kalau perempuan itu kerabat suami.
  9. Hendaklah cermat dalam perbelanjaan hari-hari. Umpamanya jika diberi belanja untuk seminggu, janganlah habiskan kesemuanya. Bahkan hendaklah disimpan sedikit. Wang simpanan itu jangan pula dibelanjakan untuk perkara yang tidak penting bahkan untuk persiapan atau persediaan apabila datang kesusahan kerana barang siapa bercermat akan terselamat daripada kepapaan.
  10. Jangan suka berhutang. Jika terpaksa sebaik-baik beritahu suami dan hutang itu ialah kerana muslihat rumahtangga dan bukan muslihat diri sendiri.
  11. Jangan ceritakan perbelanjaan harian sama ada banyak atau sedikit kepada orang lain.
    Hendaklah makan minum untuk suami sama ada di sebelah pagi, tengah hari dan malam disediakan pada waktunya. Jangan sampai diminta atau disuruh, supaya tidak tergendala pekerjaan suami.
  12. Hendaklah suami dan isteri menjaga kesihatan dengan seboleh-bolehnya dengan melakukan senaman dan jaga makanan dan minuman, jaga kebersihan dan jaga perasaan yang tenteram.

soure Bride-to-be : tq :)

Saturday, June 26, 2010

Amsyar

haa ni Amsyar anak cousin aku, masa ni..dia nk masuk kolam nk swim..tp mana leh kolam tu ada ikan..so aku isi cari besen takde..nasib ada baldi yg gabak sikit..isi air..jdilah kolam buatan..nasib dia leh terima helah aku tu..huhu..kalu dia mengamuk nk jg masuk kolam ikan tu..mcmana : aku rendam juga dalam kolam ikan tu..sori mesyar umi ya tak sensored apa yg patut..tp tak nmpak laa..

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

kaftan jubah

mcm mana? ok tak..mcm sweet jer..

Monday, June 21, 2010

Thursday, June 17, 2010

pelamin lg...

eeh..kenapa pelamin ni pon... enterframe..blakang tirai tu sliding door..hhehhee..keje senang tak payah tebuk2 dinding..gantung jer..kat railing sliding door tu..
(ni pelamin masa tunang)


pengantin pon enterframe...hehhehhe


ni antara pelamin yg DIY oleh pengantin lelaki..ok juga..deko by pengantin pompuan ok jer..cantik juga..

Monday, June 14, 2010

muka badan aku

rindu nyer kulit muka aku yg dulu...wlaupun tak cantik tp still ok lg...



Ya Allah...makin gedebab aku nih 2005-75kg, 2009-80kg, 2010 - 85kg entah entah dah 90kg>...

pelamin...



source-rinssuzana

memang cantik sentuhan Rins nih..nk try nk


pelamin ni kawan aku yg buat sendiri just amek idea dari pelamin Umi Aida adaptasi dgn kreativiti sendiri cost kurang rm400..mcm mana??

hmmmm!!!

dah tak de idea nk bercerita...mood skang ni..tak menentu jer..dgn muka di penuhi bintang2..eum*** nyer produk ker aku nyer kulit muka ni memang degil...''_" sedih tau...
jadi hal kerja kawen aku..in progress....sikit..laaa
nanti aku update laa bila operasi menjelang kawen ek...
kursus tak p lagi nih
pelamin dah draft dah..abah dah p tanya kayu dah...**kot
bunga telur julai baru buat
kad dah siap, cuma tak print lagi
baju nikah n sanding dah tempang
baju bertandang lom wat lg
kerusi pelamin blom cari
cenderahati dah order

Saturday, June 5, 2010

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

I've Learned

I've learned - that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
I've learned - that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
I've learned - that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I've learned - that you can keep going long after you can't.
I've learned - that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I've learned - that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I've learned - that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
I've learned - that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I've learned - that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
I've learned - that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
I've learned - that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.
I've learned - that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I've learned - that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I've learned - that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned- that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I've learned - that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I've learned - that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.I've learned - that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I've learned - that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I've learned - that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other and just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
I've learned - that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I've learned - that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
I've learned - that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
I've learned - that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.
I've learned - that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.
I've learned - that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
I've learned - that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

Selamat dahh ke BTN

27-31 Mei kami beramai p BTN, kami tu (zai,ewan PKP) bersemangat p UPM berkonvoi...sesampai je kat UPM tiba2 org tua sorang ni dah lupa bawa gmbar..singgah la kt pekan serdang p teman kan ewan p tangkap gambar..setelah selesai...sampai je kat pdg kawad kami pun terkejut..coz..pjg giler line nk kena beratur..bila di tanya2 rupanya beratur nk naik bus ke kolej kediaman masing2 aku kolej ke 5, ewan kolej ke 2, zai plak pendeta zaaba...wah teruja nyer..aku dpt dok kat UPM...rasa mcm student la plak..hahhhaa

::2 be continue::